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You are here: Home / Blog / Here’s One Those Who Know Me Will Appreciate — and Probably Those Who Don’t….

Here’s One Those Who Know Me Will Appreciate — and Probably Those Who Don’t….

October 28, 2021 by Melinda Blau

Photo by Arjun MJ on Unsplash

It Started with the Wrong Uber

Did you every wonder what happens when you get into someone else’s Uber and the driver doesn’t speak your language? I hadn’t…until recently.

Which is surprising. I tend to catastrophize when it comes to gallivanting around Paris armed only with toddler French.

I typically imagine myself post-accident: rushed to the hospital, that God-awful siren blaring, reminding me of Anne Frank. EMTs speaking above my head as they poke around my body, me understanding almost nothing.

But I never pictured an emergency in an Uber. After all, it’s prearranged…in English. All I have to do is ask the driver who I am.

“Mon nom?” I ask on this particular night. I’m on my way to a party in a far-away part of Paris…. [continued on Medium, “How to Not Maim, Injure or Somehow Disappear Yourself“]

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