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Boy, Do I Have a Story for You…

March 11, 2021 by Melinda Blau

Photo by Jack Delulio on Unsplash

Did that get your attention?  Seems that writing nowadays is all about getting noticed in what a publicist in 2009 described to me as “a noisy world.”  Twelve years later, it’s even noisier.  

If that headline grabbed you, and you’re still reading, I’ve got a hundred stories for you.

If you subscribe to this blog, you already know that (a) I appreciate it, and (b) I’ve been putting my more recent stories on Medium.  If you’ve never been here before…

  • Some are about adventures in Paris (“Someone Stole My Caddy”)
  • Some offer advice (“A Forever-After Valentine’s Gift”).
  • Some are cautionary tales (“Scam Alert…”)
  • One of my latest is about being a family-centered parent (** “Tiger Mom, Helicopter Dad: You Have it All Wrong”).  (Note that this and other links have ** in front of them because I have NOT previously mentioned them here, so please check them out.)

Medium hasn’t been easy for this old-school journalist to grasp.  It’s a sprawling conglomeration of over 12,000 “publications” and a gazillion writers–veterans like me and newbies.  It’s not easy to learn the rules. 

Luckily for me, a recent story of mine on this very subject, ** “Finding Myself: 10 Months on Medium, 43 Years in Journalism, attracted attention (there’s that phrase again), and I’ve begun to be “seen” and to get advice from those in-the-know on Medium.

One of them, a brilliant, multi-faceted guy, Dr. Mehmet Yildiz  (founder of Illumination and other Medium publication) advises newcomers to write bios about themselves.  Thanks to his prompting, I published ** “Melinda Blau–About Me Story” — an adaptation of the bio I wrote for this website. 

Dr. Yildiz then challenged me to write “another version,” for Illumination. To my surprise, what came out was a poem-like offering, **My Second Bio: What I Could Never Have Imagined 20 Years Ago.

Again, a great reception.  Perhaps the truth is that everything I write is at least a piece of my biography (I’m working on that idea for a new Medium article).  Thinking about this, in turn, prompted me to search and then upload to Medium **“Things of This World,” an op-ed piece published by The New York Times decades ago about cleaning out my father’s apartment after his death.  

To my delight, Dr. Yildiz immediately “boosted” it in “Has Anyone Seen A Medium Article Dated 1996?”

I smiled for days afterwards.  I still have many questions about Medium.  I struggle about what to write next.  But I keep going…

I hope you enjoy reading me here and there.  As I said in Finding Myself, Medium has inspired me to write regularly and post more often. Being in lockdown helps, too!  (In Paris, no restaurants or cafes are open; non-family socialization is restricted to the often-cold outdoors, and since January 16, curfew is at 6 PM–or as they say here, couvre-feu à 18:00–and not much hope of vaccination.

What else is a girl to do but write?

Please keep reading.  More than anything, that is what keeps me writing.  Also, I love feedback.  To borrow that old line: Enough about me. Now tell me what you think of me!

And by all means, tell your friends about this website.  Let them know that if they subscribe to MelindaBlau.com, I will NOT sell their email address, nor will I overuse their inbox!

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Important Note: The above links are what Medium calls “friend links”–you don’t have to be a subscriber to read them.  But if you’re not a subscriber you can’t clap for a piece (and, I assume, you also can’t comment or read other people’s comments either).  Click here to subscribe to Medium.  The site has some excellent writers, news, ideas — in my opinion, a bargain at $5 a month or $50 a year.  Let me know if you decide to subscribe. 

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Comments

  1. Jennifer Martin says

    March 11, 2021 at 5:14 pm

    Keep up the good work, MOM!! Finally saw the poem too❤️

    • Melinda Blau says

      March 12, 2021 at 4:23 am

      You know that your compliments mean more than anyone else’s. Thanks!

  2. GranPa-Festus says

    March 12, 2021 at 3:25 am

    You know what I think of You, M. Melinda!

    I stand corrected on the friend links. I recall now that I bought my Older-Sister a subscription. I thought that was after she’d clapped and commented, tho apparently not.

    Hope You get the attention You deserve. Hopefully the money will follow. You know You’re lucky to have Dr. Yildiz in Your corner. And luck, or Serendipity as it’s better called, is the key to happiness.

    • Melinda Blau says

      March 12, 2021 at 4:25 am

      GranPa, thanks for all your support here and on Medium. I’m glad to have you in my corner as well!

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